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September 4, 2015 / glennlim thots

3 Tips to Build Mental Fitness!


Let’s face it, what keeps us going in our increasingly stressful lives today is a healthy mind. We need mental fortitude to face our world, work, and the people we constantly interact with. Like building physical strength, developing your mental muscle doesn’t happen by chance, or overnight. It requires high intent, and intensity. But most of all, u need the strategies. While there are lots of exercises that can help you become mentally strong, here are the 3 secrets to boost your mental fitness:




Scientists at the LNI (Laboratory of Neuro Imaging) estimate that most people have about 70,000 thoughts per day. That means you have 70,000 opportunities to either make yourself stronger, or tear yourself down.

Your thoughts greatly influence how you feel and behave. In fact, your inner monologue has a tendency to become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Thinking things like, “I will never do a good job” or “Nobody likes my ideas” can alter your behavior in a way that makes those predictions come true. Self-fulfilling prophecy.

Practice replacing negative and unconstructive thoughts with more realistic ones. When you notice yourself thinking something like, “I’m a loser and I’ll never amount to anything”, remind yourself that your thoughts aren’t necessarily true.

Ask yourself, “What would I say to a friend who said this about herself?” Then, offer those kind and encouraging words to yourself.


Allowing your emotions to control your life will deplete your mental strength. While there’s nothing wrong with being in a bad mood sometimes, staying stuck in a negative spot can be a slippery slope. Sadness can lead to self-pity, anger can turn to bitterness and mild anxiety can become paralyzing fear if you’re not careful.

A lot of problems stem from a desire to avoid discomfort. For example, people who fear failure often avoid new challenges in an effort to keep anxiety at bay. Avoiding emotional discomfort, however, is usually a short-term solution that leads to long-term problems.

Develop an awareness of how your emotions impact your life. Decide that you’re going to be in control of your emotions so they don’t control you. Face uncomfortable feelings head-on and take charge of your life. The more you practice tolerating discomfort, the more confidence you’ll gain in your ability to accept new challenges.


It’s impossible to feel mentally strong when you’re engaging in self-destructive behaviors that sabotage your best efforts. Yet, most people have a few unproductive habits that they indulge in on a regular basis.

Many of these bad habits seem minor—complaining about your boss, hosting your own pity party, or trying to please everyone—but they can wreak havoc on your mental state. When you perform these bad habits, right alongside your good ones, your efforts become counterproductive.

You only have a finite amount of time and energy in life. Devoting those resources to the things mentally strong people don’t do will tire you out and slow your progress toward your goals.



Learning how to flex your mental muscle is the key to reaching your greatest potential in life. A strong and fit mind will help you reach your goals. And everyone has the ability to build mental strength. But it requires dedication and commitment. With practice, you’ll gain an increased ability to regulate your thoughts, control your emotions, and behave productively despite your circumstances. Go on, start your mental regime today, you can do it!

Glenn Lim Singapore


August 4, 2015 / glennlim thots


Finger Length Reading


There have been studies and reports on Finger-Length reading, especially with the Ring and Index fingers, which makes for interesting comparisons. Take the below test to find out how true they reflect your personality. NOTE: It is significant to measure the fingers on your MASTER HAND when doing the test.
Finger Length


If you have a longer ring finger, you are more appealing & charismatic than most people. You can motivate people, rally support, mobilise resources, and talk yourself out of just about any situation. Additionally, you are an idea-generator and problem-solver. 


If you have a shorter ring finger, you are a self-confident, self-motivated, get-it-done type of person. You tend to like solitude and work alone to accomplish things without disturbance or distractions, but that doesn’t mean you’re introverted. You are very goal oriented, and have an appetite to achieve more.


If both your ring & index fingers are the same length, you are peace-loving and conflict-avoiding. You love harmony, care for people, and want to get along with everyone. You are a faithful friend, and relationships are important to you. But you have a suppressed fiery side that erupts especially when relationships are betrayed. You may be well-organised and detailed in your work. 

How accurate has the above test been for you? Do share this page and give your comments too!

…Glenn Lim

ET Finger Length

July 2, 2015 / glennlim thots

Reboot your Life using Ctrl-Alt-Del !!!

Ctrl Alt Del Glenn Lim


It’s a simple concept, and we see it on our computer keyboards everyday. So why not use it when we face challenging situations? It’s the same 3 Keys we can use to reboot our ‘heartware’ during problematic situations.


CONTROL your emotions:

Unforeseen situations can affect you emotionally. People can trigger you negatively. But that does not mean we have to react to them. Our negative responses only makes matters worse anyway. What we can and should do is to exercise control and manage our emotions. Especially our initial reactions, which may be impulsive, and leave us regretting later on. Remember, we cannot control what happens to us, but we can control and master what goes on within us. So when faced with unfavourable situations, calm down, stay cool, and be in control…


Look for ALTERNATIVE solutions:

Nothing gets better by complaining or harping over our predicament. The best way to move forward constructively is to search for alternative solutions. Ask ourselves what other options and possibilities there are within our power to take action. Make a list of contacts or resources available to us that can support us towards more favourable outcomes. This action alone helps create a positive vision for ourselves, and signals to our brains to adopt a ‘hunting’ behaviour mode, looking beyond our problems and ‘stuckness’, and focusing on solutions.


DELETE the negative voices:

Even after taking initial positive actions, there will be lingering doubts, skepticism, fear etc. We call them ‘residual’ negative emotions. They are the nagging voices that continue to haunt & taunt you. They question your decisions; remind you of your failures; attack your worth & confidence. They make you feel vulnerable, insecure, and even lousy. You become preoccupied with self-doubt. The best way to deal with them? – Delete them!…

Imagine you possess a Delete Button (somewhere conveniently accessible like your watch). Whenever those negative thoughts surface, physically reach out to your button and press it as you would on your keyboard. This simple kinesthetic movement signals to your brain an action that it registers as real, and it literally shuts out the voices in your head! How cool is that?


So, the next time you encounter negative situations, start activating these 3 keys to re-boost your life today! – Glenn Lim

Ctrl Alt Del



June 12, 2015 / glennlim thots


Recently I’ve been ‘bumping’ into lots of old acquaintances & friends. These are people who have not seen me for at least 6 – 7 years. And most of their initial reactions can be summed up with the below hilarious pic…!


Sure, my friends recognised me in person. It’s not like I aged that much! But for those whom I had the time to chat for a while, most noticed a difference in my outlook & attitude, in the way I shared my convictions & aspirations. They saw the evidence in my life (some of them actually follow me on social media). And they all pointed out this quality of ‘change’.

This really affirmed my own definition of ‘Transformation’. Especially since I teach it all the time…

Success guru Jim Rohn once said “Real transformation begins from the inside out”. A true test of change is in the way someone expresses changed beliefs / values from his inner core, that is evidenced in his outward behaviour. Yes, real transformation cannot be just discussed. It must be demonstrated.

That’s why its easy to talk about change if it was merely an activity of the mind. But real transformation requires tangible proof. And more often than not, those initial steps of change involve unpleasant experiences – a breaking down of the old nature & habits.

Transformation Glenn Lim

This is explicitly taught in Transformative Strategies and Leadership. No butterfly emerges out of a vacuum state. A butterfly is a new entity which ‘died’ to its old ‘identity’ of a caterpillar. And in its cocoon, the dying process is called Metamorphosis. If one wants to embrace a new destiny, one has to give up the old ways of being.

I contemplate my past 7-8 yrs with fondness every time someone remarks my ‘change’. There were no major events that I could recall. It’s not as if I underwent a drastic overhaul or makeover. What I realised was that I simply ‘died’ to little bits of the old me one day at a time. The old unconstructive ways of thinking, the old habits that kept me from reaching my goals, the unwillingness to accept change, the unwillingness to forgive & let go of my past…Some were painful decisions I had to take, many were inconvenient lifestyle choices I had to make.

Transformation Glenn Lim

And in this grand evolutionary process of ‘dying’, I emerge a new ‘ME’ every morning!…

So the next time someone says “You’ve changed!”, take it as a compliment that you are a better person today than you were yesterday! Happy Transformation!….Glenn Lim

March 24, 2015 / glennlim thots

In Memory – Mr Lee Kuan Yew

Lee Kuan Yew LKY Much tribute has been pouring in since the passing of our great hero Mr Lee Kuan Yew yesterday (23 Mar 2015). He has been hailed as the founding-father of Singapore, a visionary-leader, a true legend…

I’m not about to add more to the burgeoning list of accolades. But how can we not feel indebted to a man who almost single-handedly turned Singapore’s destiny around? It is easy to overlook history, become complacent, carry a sense of entitlement and become demanding, without understanding where we came from.

It’s rather ironical that in a short span of 2-3 days, one gets a crash-course in independent Singapore’s history far more informative than our years of history classes in school. These come in the form of the tribute programs aired on TV, online documentaries, testimonials etc. I, for one, am getting intimately aware of the real work & sacrifices made by our pioneer leaders only recently…and I’m ashamed.

…Ashamed of my lack of knowledge in local history. Ashamed of my ignorance of what LKY has actually done for our nation. Ashamed that I have taken many things for granted…

The below video series best captures an overview of LKY’s key milestone accomplishments. Watch them with a grateful heart…




I’m very humbled to have represented, and donned the colours of my country for a good 5 years. And I’m very proud to call Singapore my home…

Glenn Lim

Here are some other interesting related reads here (there are many out there, but these are worth your time) –

The World Will Miss LKY (Henry A. Kissinger)

No Man Like Him (Bertha Henson)

Remembering LKY (S. Dhanabalan)

LKY Obituary (Philip Bowring, The Guardian)

Mr Lee’s Red Box (Heng Swee Keat)

The Curse of LKY (Ben Judah, Politico)

Farewell & Good Night, Sir (Kinmun Lee)

Rare Photos of LKY you’ve never seen before

Farewell Mr Lee…from one of the many grateful sons…

January 16, 2015 / glennlim thots

NINJA Bamboo Training!

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Here’s a great lesson for every ordinary individual…

Japanese Ninjas are known for, among other things, their legendary skills for jumping. The Ninja warriors seemed to possess such astounding physical abilities that they are fabled as ‘flying ninjas’. The secret to their super-human ability is their unique training regime.

Training of a Ninja commences at an early age. These young disciples are first taught to plant and grow a personal bamboo shoot. Every day, the little boy has to jump over the little bamboo sapling. glenn articleOver the months and years, the bamboo shoot grows, and for most they grow fast. The boy is pushed to jump a little higher every day. By the time he is an adult, he seems to possess the magical power to just ‘fly-over’ high obstacles!…And it’s all attributed to his years of jumping over bamboo, daily!


We, too, can push the bar a little higher everyday in areas we wish to master! And be our very own Ninja Warrior!…Glenn Lim

January 6, 2015 / glennlim thots

Psychological Test…

Pscyh Test

Here’s a cool psychological test!

Follow the mathematical instructions as quickly as possible. Make sure you complete each calculation first before solving the next. Do not use a calculator, do not use writing material, do not skip, and you don’t need to remember any of the answers. Just calculate each one mentally, and move on…


13 + 6 =
4 + 55 =
87 + 2 =
12 + 52 =
75 + 26 = 
25 + 52 =
63 + 32 = 
…calculations are tough! but you’re almost there!
this is the final one…
123 + 5
QUICK!…Think about a Colour, and Tool
Got it?…OK, Wait a little while…
Now scroll down for the answer…
Further down…
Just a little bit more…
Was it?…

Red Hammer

Was your answer a RED HAMMER?

If you answered correctly for either half of the above answer (ie: either RED for the colour, or HAMMER for the tool), you belong to the 99% of people with the same answer!


If you answered something else other than RED or HAMMER, you’re a rare breed of innovative, out-of-the-box thinkers!

Let me know if you want to find out the meaning behind what you chose???…

Below are some analytics to some of your choices…



  • If you chose YELLOW – you are bright, cheery, in a happy mood, and probably allowed that to influence your choice during this test.
  • If you chose BLUE – you were pensive, contemplative, probably in a thinking / reflective mood just before doing this test.
  • If you chose GREEN – you were in a stimulated, creative mood, maybe u just got off a discussion or brain-storming session before doing this test.


  • If you chose SCREWDRIVER, SPANNER (or any ‘turning’ tool) – you were probably a lil uptight, confused, or under slight duress during the time of the test.
  • If you chose CLIPPERS, SCISSORS, CUTTERS (or any cutting tool) – you are / were in a pragmatic ‘mood’, wanting to get things done in a practical or efficient manner.
  • If you chose a MECHANICAL TOOL (drill, chainsaw, machine-based or mechanized tool etc) – you are a utilitarian who likes to employ technology or devices to advance your ideas or work.